With regard to my previous post, I contacted Corporate HR at my girl's company and they called me back right away, exchanged email addys, and he will try to help us out ASAP.
He also guaranteed me no retribution from local management for going over their heads. He will see to that personally. He will get some of his insurance experts etc together and figure out how best to help us in our time of need.
I feel good about this all, but will believe it when I see it. I asked for everything in writing when all is worked out which should not be a problem.
He said he does not want to deny a cancer patient/employee all the support and care they require, and he seemed very sincere. He even stayed on the phone with me a bit to assure me everything will be ok and that he will begin working on this right away and get back to me.